I try to keep my more personal life, just that personal. I do not like airing my dirty laundry out to dry. So with that being said I will try to get to my point without being too personal.
There is a few things I hate about being a parent, and that is being questioned about things I do or say.
Have you ever said no to your child only to have someone other then the other parent say “Well why can’t he/she do this/that?“. I bite my tongue most the time, but damn it not any more. When I am questioned next time I am going to be blunt and I am going to be hateful. BECAUSE I AM HER PARENT AND GUESS WHAT I SAID SO DAMN IT I DO NOT NEED AN EXCUSE OR A REASON TO SAY NO TO MY CHILD!!! Sorry I needed to get that out.
Now that I have that out. Is there any other parent/s that have the same problem? I love how its my daughter saying ok and an adult questioning me. Shouldn’t that be the other way around I know when I was a kid I was always like “but mom, why can’t I do this/that”. Some people need to know there place and stand back.
Another thing I hate about being a parent is people being negative towards my daughter. At one time I will admit I sat back I said nothing I let it go on. Why? To keep peace for my daughter. What would it do to her if I went off? It would cause unneeded tension. So I was trying to look out for my daughter in a different way. I have since learned “grew a backbone” that my daughter needed me to say something. My daughter needs me to say something more then she needs me to sit back and bite my tongue.
So from now on anyone that has anything negative to say about/to my daughter this momma is no longer going to “keep peace” and say nothing. This momma is going to stand up and say something and guess what if it causes tension so be it. I will no longer ALLOW these certain people to think my daughter is a walking mat.