You may be familiar with the word narcissist and think that someone you are dating exhibits narcissistic qualities. This could be true, but you have to know that just because someone is a little bit of a narcissist, they’re not necessarily a full-fledged narcissist. For example, someone may like to have things run their way, put their needs first, and struggle to see that they’re ever wrong – but with a little bit of a nudge, they can acknowledge their flaws and feel empathy. Through this article, we will look at 5 red flags you can watch out for if you suspect a narcissist stole your heart.
What is a Narcissist
Someone with a narcissistic personality disorder will live in a delusional world where they are at the center. They will use all of their relationships for their own gain and will seek praise and validations from those around them, as it is their right. They lack any empathy and there is zero room for compromise on these behaviors.
Being in a relationship with someone who has a narcissistic personality can be dangerous if not sorted quickly. If you’ve found escaping from the grips of a narcissist difficult, you may need professional support. This guide from msuewilsonlaw.com provides a useful list of the many resources available for those in a toxic relationship.
Overly Charismatic
Your narcissistic lover may be extremely charming and charismatic from the outset; they will do whatever they can to win your heart. You may find yourself in a rapidly moving relationship because once they’ve netted their catch, they’ll turn on you – this could be a thrill for them.
Abusive Tendencies
You may be faced with physical and emotional abuse – but it might not be over the top, to begin with. They might belittle you through jokes and comments at your expense. They might create weaknesses for you that they can use to blackmail you.
Two-Faced
Like Dr. Jekyll and Mr. Hyde, they probably have two very different personalities. To the world, they will portray the kind and pleasant person but behind closed doors, they may be cruel to their partner – they will act like this is normal.
Suffocation
They will try and cut you off from everything else by wanting to spend as much time as possible with you alone – making your relationship the most important thing.
Gaslighting
If you try and call your partner out on their behavior they won’t take accountability for it – they will justify their actions or turn the blame on you. They may make you feel “crazy” to the point you start to question your judgment.
These are the 5 traits of a narcissist but remember that just because someone exhibits one quality, it doesn’t make them entirely that. If your partner is holding the red flags of oppression, then make sure to speak out and get the help and support you need.
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