What are some lessons you have learned through out life? I know everyone has done something they somewhat regret they did, and it put them in a spot they would have never wished to be in. I like to chalk those up as learning experiences and not mistakes. Over the past few months I have had my fair share of “Omfg how could I have been that stupid and that blind”
I have a thing where I tend to see good in everyone, even if people have no good in them. I tend to let people walk all over me, and give me orders, and even though it pisses me off I ignore it. A lot of the reasons, is because I dislike arguing and fighting and I know by keep my mouth shut all will be well.
However, I learned that is not the case, and I have to get a grip and I have to learn to speak my mind when I am annoyed with peoples actions… and if they are not adult enough to handle what I have to say, then they really need to step out of my life. I do not have time for their childish games.
I have also learned to listen more to my husband, and his judgement on things, because he can see things a bit better then I can and with all the crap going on right now in my life, that is one thing I will be doing, is listening to my husband’s judgement on others a bit better.
I have lifted the blinders off my eyes, and I will not be seeing the good in everyone. My husband has shown me first hand how I should wait and let people prove to me they are good.
How many times have people walked all over you because you couldn’t say no?